I say this not just for relationship sake and relatively finding the below or whatever people do this days but for all kinds of relationships especially FRIENDSHIP.
I had a chat with someone yesterday and it was the first time that I have ever really spoken to the person. I was fascinated not by the way he looked but by the way he thinks.
I’m one who loves to engage with people for intellectual benefit, I want you to be able to add something to the little knowledge I have cause that’s the only way to grow (knowledge is never wasted).
He talked to me about people having different mindsets and I could understand his because he is well driven. I didn’t actually know someone can have so much dream as myself, I thought I was an over dreamer until I met him.
In essence, how you see people shouldn’t just be about their appearance (not that it’s excluded how you present yourself matters) but also how they think. I got to understand that your thoughts are the embodiments of what makes you you, likewise others. Knowing how someone thinks, helps you understand them, how they’re driven and once you can relate to that it’s really something great.
An ambitious person cannot be friends with a no dreamer. It never works, the no dreamer will always draw you back.
Having a friend you can learn from is worth investing and knowing the right things that attract you to someone can help you determine if that relationship is worth investing in.
Now what is the best kind of attraction..
I think I’ve given a hint, but I’ll say it…
“Like minds attract and unlike minds repel”
It sounds a little off as it goes against every law in the world that says that unlikes attract.
I believe this is different when it comes to attraction.
Unlike personalities do attract but similar minds do the greatest. Imagine someone who has the same focus as you, driven just as you are but though in a different way, wouldn’t that be great?
Engage with people who makes the best out of you
Now answer this for me, What attracts you to someone as a person?
Let me know in the comments below
Why don’t you share this knowledge you just got, I think you know someone that might need it.
I Am Yeka Asumah,
An ordinary girl from Nigeria with big dreams.
I love to write, read, learn and try new things every day. I enjoy the ability to air my voice out, expressions and being able to inspire people with my little thoughts. I hope to one day create an atmosphere where people can drop their challenges and together help solve them... I am on a journey to success and greatness. I would like for you to join me on that journey.